SEX IN A DISH. 1 c. chopped nuts 1 1/2 c. flour 1 1/2 sticks butter, softened 1 tbsp. sugar. Blend together and put in 9 x 13 inch pan. Spread evenly on bottom of. Sex in a Pan (Robert Redford Dessert) This sinfully rich layered dessert is similar to the chocolate delight dessert, with layers of cream cheese, whipped topping and two kinds of pudding on a simple baked shortbread crust. You can try topping the dessert with Heath toffee chips.